Here are the answers to our most frequently asked questions
If you’re looking into fostering or adoption, you probably have many questions. Here are some of the top questions we are asked. If you have more, please call us at (419) 227-8590 so we can help you find the answer.
Foster Care
A foster child is one whose own parents are physically or emotionally unable to provide for their needs. The child may have been abused, neglected or abandoned. He or she often has experienced physical, emotional or social deprivation in the early years. Children needing foster care come from all races and range in age from birth to 18.
Allen County Juvenile Court places children in the custody of the agency. In other cases, the family may voluntarily seek help from Children Services and ask that foster care be provided for their children until a family crisis is over. Children may be referred by schools, hospitals, churches, social agencies, or other communities. The rules affecting children entering foster care are set up and monitored by the state and federal governments.
A child’s stay in foster care can vary. Some children may only need a brief stay while relatives or kinship placements are found. Others may need a lengthier stay that could involve several months. During the time children are in foster care, the agency works intensively with the family to reunify the child as quickly as possible. The time varies depending on safety factors in each individual situation. In a family where the safety factors cannot be resolved, the agency looks to find a more permanent placement for the child as quickly as possible.
We need all kinds of families, but most importantly, we need:
- Families who are willing to open their hearts and homes to children.
- Families who are willing to provide a home for emotionally or behaviorally troubled youth.
- Families who are willing to take children with special medical needs.
- Families who are willing to take children on an emergency basis.
- Families that will take in sibling groups.
- Families who are willing to foster mentally retarded or handicapped children, pregnant teens, adolescents, mother/baby groups and drug-affected infants.
The Ohio Department of Human Services requires that all foster parents be licensed. You need to be 21 years of age or older, and you can either be married, single, or a co-parent. The licensing process includes an interview with a social worker (home study), pre-service training, a medical report, references, and a check of the physical condition of your home, along with a fire inspection.
A home study consists of interviews with the foster parent(s). The social worker will want to become better acquainted with your family and will give you the opportunity to learn more about the agency.
The social worker will ask you to share background information which will help the worker get acquainted with your family. Social workers are looking for families who can cope with stress and meet the needs of a child relatively well. We do not expect to meet perfect families. The social worker will, of course, want to see your home and to meet your children. It does not matter whether you live in a house or an apartment. It is only necessary that you have a suitable dwelling with space to accommodate additional children, and that there are no hazards to the health or safety of a foster child.
Families are not paid to care for foster children, however, the agency provides a monthly board check for food, clothing, and incidentals. The amount varies with the age and special needs of the child, as well as the level of care provided to the child, and is considered reimbursement for necessary expenses. In addition to the board rate, Allen County Children Services assumes the cost of needed medical and dental care. There also is some childcare reimbursement available for daycare for working foster parents.
Adoption
Children available for adoption come into permanent custody of Children Services when a court determines that their birth parents cannot care for their needs.
Children needing families are:
- Children of all ages but particularly 7 years of age or older.
- Children with severe emotional or learning problems.
- Children who are a part of a sibling group (two or more children).
Adoption can be facilitated by many different kinds of individuals and families.
Adoptive parents can be:
- Single or married
- Homeowners or renters
- With or without children
- Stay-at-home-parents or parents who work outside the home
You will have to be over the age of 21. If you are married, you need to have been married for at least one year.
The following steps generally occur once you have decided to consider adoption:
- A social worker will be assigned to work with you during the adoption process.
- The social worker will meet individually or with a group of other prospective adoptive parents to talk with you about adoption and provide information covering such things as child discipline, guidance, etc. Time will be spent talking about you and your family, and you will also have an opportunity to talk about the type of child you think would best fit into your family.
- While being prepared for adoption, you will be involved in a home study process.
- After the home study is complete, you and the worker will be ready to determine which child would best fit your family.
- After the foster care and adoption unit meet and recommend you for the child, pre-placement visits will begin.
- When the planned visits are completed and both you and the child are ready to proceed, arrangements are made for the actual move of the child into your home.
- Generally, the adoption can be finalized about six months to one year after a child is placed with you. The social worker will be talking with you and visiting regularly during this period. Then you will go to court, where a judge will declare the child to be a permanent member of your family.
The time spent learning about and preparing for adoption varies. On average it can take three to six months. How soon a child is placed with you can also depend on the age, sex, or health needs of the child.
You will be asked to assess your abilities as a prospective adoptive family. You’ll be asked to think seriously about:
- Your parenting style.
- Your own life experiences and how they affect you.
- Your sense of family.
- Your expectations for a child.
- The reasons you want to adopt.
- Your family’s and your community’s reaction to adoption.
- Your ability to adjust your family’s lifestyle to a new family member.
Yes, all of the children available for adoption are in some form of foster care setting. This means the parental rights of the child’s parents have been terminated, making the child legally adoptable.
Foster parenting may, under some special circumstances, be an avenue to adoption. Foster parenting can sometimes make it possible for a child to enter your home sooner than if you wait until a particular child becomes available for adoption. In fact, adoptions by former foster parents make up a large percentage of all of Allen County’s adoptions.
Call Allen County Children Services at (419) 227-8590 and ask to speak to the Adoption Worker. We will be glad to answer any questions you may have and send you more information. You will be invited to our next orientation meeting for prospective adoptive parents.